Introverts and Extraverts
attitude-type characterised by orientation in life through subjective psychic contents
an attitude type characterised by concentration of interest on the external object
I want to be left alone…
Absolutely Crucial Top Ten Tips
- Make a hit list – research the top 3 people you want to meet, by name or by function and find something specific you can acknowledge as particularly interesting. This is a great way of complimenting someone without coming across as creepy.
- Prepare your small talk; listen to the news before you go in – but beware dangerous or inflammatory topics. As at family get togethers politics and religion are probably best avoided.
- Use positive psychology to raise your confidence and status – give yourself a positive talking to before you arrive. You can do this!
- Think of yourself as if you’re the host of the party and try to make others feel comfortable – focus on asking questions of other people rather than talking about yourself. It’s easier and less stressful if the other person does the talking and they’ll appreciate your attention.
- Match the strength of their handshake – if you’re given a wet fish don’t bone crunch – just return the wet fish with a smile.
- Hit easy conversation hot-spots, like the bar or the buffet (food is always a good discussion topic)
- Have an entry and exit line ready to move in and out of conversations. It’s easy to get stuck talking to one person you know. Make the decision to circulate and announce your intention to do so as you move on.
- Rather than looking for how people can help you in your career, look out for ways in which you can support other people. Look for opportunities to make introductions and recommendations.
- Be aware of peoples’ boundaries when you join and leave groups and acknowledge the whole group with eye contact. A handy ploy is to follow the waiter with the canapes or drinks – they always find a way in and can create a neat gap for you when they leave!
- Record personal details or unusual conversation topics on the back of peoples business cards. This can be a really useful reminder when it comes to getting back in touch or following up the event.
Join us for a glass and a bite…
The quick way to hone your networking skills is to come and join us on one of our public networking courses.
We provide the drinks and canapes – all you need is to pitch up, smile, and plunge in!
Come on in, the water’s lovely!
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